Mariiiaaa

I dont know how i feel about hearing that im not in a Christ-centered relationship I guess because i’ve always been catholic my whole life and when i joined YFC i always thought “when I go to singles, i’ll find that person that God has for me” and I guess it just bothers me to hear something like that. Yeah the person that God helped me find isnt catholic but what really are the traits for a couple in a “Christ-centered” relationship? Does it have to be two people who are catholic/christian? I also used to think both people have to be catholic/christian but now that it relates to me I think otherwise just because he helped me see that you both dont really have to be catholic/christian to have some kind of relationship with Christ. When I dont attend YFC events he asks me why? He knows how important my religion is to me and even said “If its because of me, You should go because I know you want to.” When I forget to pray before I eat he reminds me. When I go to church, he asks me if he can come along; which is thoughtful since he doesnt really have to go. Even other guys who are catholic dont choose to go to church. He is one of the most open guys i know since religion is a touchy subject. Even in YFC for the joining camps, if a participant isnt catholic/christ; even if they dont believe in God they’re allowed to come and join as long as they have an open mind. So I dont really understand why he cant be considered “christ-centered” when he believes in God as much as a person who was baptized in a church but doesnt practice the religion. He may not be catholic/christian but he makes me a better catholic, he helps me never to forget the big guy that is most important to me. I guess technically we arent in a christ-centered relationship but not only does he help me become a better person, he helps me become a better catholic.